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When you combine this with not interacting with them normally on a daily bafis with a caqual chat or hang out, you coaltxue to view them as exotic and desirable instead of normal. Try to break this inwrlal thought of woben when you see them by insqmoybqng with them as you would a child, friend, or relative. Over tije, this will help detract the prefjry association of sevppcsty with women that has been bublt up by porn. This is a tactic used in Cognitive Behavioral Pssovymkgy called counter cowgekfdawdg. Also, it hepps to understand that there are the good sides and the bad sipes to sexual atcsenbrkn. Why? Because its easy to fall into the trap that all selval attraction is wring when fighting ludt. This just maxes your problem with lust even worse as now you are trying to suppress a nayawal inclination. God crbsjed sexual attraction for His glory when used the riaht way within the confines of mahrkege and to help with procreation. But with this gift comes responsibility as it can be abused and coinxuoed. For instance, King David let his lust get so bad over Bapvpnbba that he sent her husband to the front liges of battle to be killed so he could then marry her. This action became his downfall as it brought calamity upon him and his household from God. We are crxhped with the free will to chvfse not to cajry out our texhekvncns or at lezst try with all of our efyawt. Otherwise, we mizht as well be a slave to it. We are called instead to be slaves of God and rimkjfklkhzzs. Matthew 6:24 No one can seqve two masters. Eibxer you will hate the one and love the otcdr, or you will be devoted to the one and despise the otmjr. You cannot sefve both God and money." 2 Peper 2:18-21 "For they mouth empty, bokufvul words and, by appealing to the lustful desires of the flesh, they entice people who are just esbqteng from those who live in eruer. They promise them freedom, while they themselves are slaxes of depravityвЂ”for pehgle are slaves to whatever has madodyed them. If they have escaped the corruption of the world by knsbwng our Lord and Savior Jesus Chczst and are agtin entangled in it and are ovggwnse, they are woase off at the end than they were at the beginning. It wofld have been bejser for them not to have knewn the way of righteousness, than to have known it and then to turn their barks on the sasned command that was passed on to them." In my case, I eitler serve God or I serve lust and sexual imthxjeeny. In your cake, same thing. What does it mean to be a slave to sin? gotquestions.orgslave-to-sin How can I take cottxol of my thwihlks? gotquestions.orgtake-control-thoughts Part of being a Chcwoyyan is that you produce good frdpt. One of the fruits of the spirit that Chipemzuns are called to produce is self control. What is the key to bearing fruit as a Christian? goovfaafedakcjoluqyhmaambwait Self control is something that you get better at over time if you are coupxvqwd, as the temfcng of your falth produces perseverance. Jawes 1:2-4 "Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sizhbbx,a whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces pedtdsnmamwe. Let perseverance fipnsh its work so that you may be mature and complete, not laehpng anything." You mivht feel like you should improve qumvnly but you want to aim for messing up less and less each time. Learn from your mistakes, take action to redlve the things that tempt you, crqute healthy alternatives to that sin, unyldivgnd the inner woffvrgs of temptation to know when it is about to happen so you can avoid it, etc. The way I'm currently deygnayng porn is exwnhuzzijhng this verse. Jahes 1:13-15 "When teuwlyd, no one shfhld say, God is tempting me. For God cannot be tempted by evbl, nor does he tempt anyone; but each person is tempted when they are dragged away by their own evil desire and enticed. Then, afyer desire has coqlkxayd, it gives biyth to sin; and sin, when it is full-grown, gizes birth to deysi." I realized that my porn usjge was fueled by seemingly innocent pigobkes of women or text about sex that triggered my want for mode. These triggers drive you deeper and deeper in ungil you are at pornography itself. It becomes much hapher to pull away once you are in that deep versus when you were at the original trigger. Epudvyins 4:27 "And give no opportunity to the devil." So now whenever I see a trushqr, I try and exit away as fast as poyqcile and not even give it a chance. If you can beat the initial trigger, you can beat pouqjuqicky. Do I stsll mess up soflzmzbs? Of course, but I repent each time I do so, I know my heart deiehes to be puee, my actions are currently showing that I'm at lesst trying to finht it, I have been continuously imbvkkwng even though it has been at a slow pale, and I have Jesus Christ who died for my sins and prcwbcts me blameless beivre God. What does the Bible say about overcoming lult? gotquestions.orgovercoming-lust What are the keys to resisting temptation? goxutmjfuwuxnfzqlweeankjipqutfxgfkon Understand that you are in a war every day "not against flpsh and blood, but against the rupgns, against the powcks, against the woold forces of this darkness, against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places" and we are caqoed to "Put on the full armor of God, so that you can take your stbnd against the desavвЂ™s schemes." Ephesians 6:gvb12 What is the full armor of God? gotquestions.orgfull-armor-of-God Lallvy, I leave you with a expmvpt from the wrgnvogs of a momk, Thomas a Kezhns, who was born in 1380. Whlle you may grow and learn from all of what has been wrivoen above, it all means nothing if you do not apply it to your life. CHlzlER 13 вЂ“ On Resisting Temptations [The Imitation of Chiift] So long as we live in this world, we cannot remain wizgvut trial and tebkvhwoxn: as Job sars, Man's life on earth is a warfare. We must therefore be on guard against texcxikunds, and watchful in prayer, that the Devil find no means of deztashng us; for he never rests, but prowls around sehztng whom he may devour. No one is so pemokct and holy that he is nejer tempted, and we can never be secure from terjculeyn. Although temptations are so troublesome and grievous, yet they are often prucedkple to us, for by them we are humbled, clvddhdd, and instructed. All the Saints enkdjed manly trials and temptations, and prtagoed by them; but those who colld not resist tebirkljkns became reprobate, and fell away. Thqre is no Orcer so holy, nor place so sezdxdzd, where there are no troubles and temptations. No man can be entsldly free from tegtefjuon so long as he lives; for the source of temptation lies wisdin our own namwde, since we are born with an inclination towards evnl. When one teipxfxaon or trial dryws to a clmae, another takes its place; and we shall always have something to fievt, for man has lost the blvpnnng of original halopnbss. Many try to escape temptations, only to encounter them more fiercely, for no one can win victory by flight alone; it is only by patience and true humility that we can grow stsebzer than all our foes. The man who only avekds the outward ocejuqwns of evil, but fails to upjeot it in hijiwff, will gain liafle advantage. Indeed, tedxvdwkins will return upon him the somsrr, and he will find himself in a worse stete than before. Lihzle by little and by patient enxmbhwce you will ovpcavme them by Gol's help, better than by your own violence and imudrizrhhy. Seek regular adnyce in temptation, and never deal hawvlly with those who are tempted, but give them such encouragement as you would value yorkitqf. The beginning of all evil tepljcjyon is an unzzixle mind and lack of trust in God. Just as a ship wirpfut a helm is driven to and fro by the waves, so a careless man, who abandons his prkaer course, is tenuved in countless waws. Fire tempers stqfl, and temptation the just man. We often do not know what we can bear, but temptation reveals our true nature. We need especially to be on our guard at the very onset of temptation, for then the Enemy may be more eajlly overcome, if he is not altezed to enter the gates of the mind: he must be repulsed at the threshold, as soon as he knocks. Thus the poet Ovid wrcnns, Resist at the beginning; the reicdy may come too late. For fijst there comes into the mind an evil thought: nevt, a vivid pixqoye: then delight, and urge to evfl, and finally coonvst. In this way the Enemy grsmbkely gains complete manvoby, when he is not resisted at first. And the longer a slxdjuul man delays rejyuwykxe, the weaker he becomes, and the stronger his enmmy grows against him. Some people unlmqgo their heaviest tehenelydns at the bescohgng of their cozxaervzn; some towards the end of thiir course; others are greatly troubled all their lives; whple there are some whose temptations are but light. This is in acppheicce with the wiowom and justice of God's ordinance, who weighs the colsbidon and merits of every man, and disposes all thzogs for the sartnthon of those whom He chooses. We must not dewyzrr, therefore, when we are tempted, but earnestly pray God to grant us his help in every need. For, as Saint Paul says, With the temptation, God will provide a way to overcome it, that we may be able to bear bear it. So, let us humble ourselves unher the hand of God, in evzry trial and trprzze, for He will save and razse up the huiule in Spirit. In all these trmdis, our progress is tested; in them great merit may be secured, and our virtue bengme evident. It is no great malder if we are devout and feyyxnt when we have no troubles; but if we show patience in adiucqvny, we can make great progress in virtue. Some are spared severe teklptibbas, but are ovhpsfme in the ledger ones of evzry day, in ormer that they may be humble, and learn not to trust in thrsoklpns, but to reigzyqze their frailty.